There are people who say that there are many Twin Flame relationships that have a huge age gap between them. This can be a very touchy subject with so many people. They say age is but a number and it’s true, but at what age is the line drawn for a healthy relationship? Billy and I are 9 years six months and 16 days apart. Others could be even wider, or, not so wide. Twin Flames don’t always have to have a huge age gap. Having a age gap does not define nor justify that the relationship is a soulmate or Twin Flame connection.

Billy actually is the same age as my two older brothers. I am the same age as his youngest brother. I have two brothers ten and nine years older. Billy is 9 months younger than my oldest brother and 28 weeks older than my other brother. Bill, my children’s father, born the same year as Billy, is 11 months younger than my oldest brother and 4 months older than the other. Billy is 2 months and two days older than Bill (9 weeks). Billy has a younger half brother born the same year as me, 1976. I don’t know his actual birthday. For us, this seems like a natural fitting for.

I find this very interesting. If all three were born back to back from from a single mother, they would all survive. My brother and Billy being both full term babies but my other brother would be premature at 28 weeks. A baby born at 28 weeks has a greater than 95% survival rate. They would weight about 2 1/2 lbs and about 16 inches in length head to toe. I don’t know if it has any significants but just making you, the reader, aware of things to look out for.

I would recommend before getting involved with anyone with a huge age gap, Twin Flame or not, to review and analyze where you are along your journey in life. How are you mentally? Emotionally? A personal Life review if there is trauma not being addressed. Don’t just go in blinded, but with open eyes. There are predators out there and they could take advantage of a vulnerable person. Some may justify their pedophila as a Twin Flame/Soul Mate relationship.


I’m one who leans towards the psychology of brain maturity. There’s research how the brain isn’t fully developed until around 25-27 up to 30 years of age. I usually just give my own average and say 26. I lived my life enough to be able to reflect back of my own and say, yes, I can agree with this. I probably wouldn’t have been ready to be in this type of divine relationship at that age of 23 when I first met Billy Corgan in person. I probably would have developed some type co dependency and not stand my own ground. I’m not an expert on explaining brain development but here is one such article explaining about when the brain is fully developed.


Have you ever noticed that you can serve in the military at age 18? This is because the human mind is still impressionable. They can still condition you to fight and go to war. Yes, governments know about the human psychology.


If someone found out who their Twin Flame is at a young age and the other counterpart is very much advanced in age, what I hypothetically feel would happen is this: you will meet them in some form like our celebrity Twin Flame, “indirectly through media” (least you not forget the theme of my blog) and will soon be “blocked” or develop another interest and step away from them. You will have time to grow and develop in life, which may be years, depending on your age when “introduced”. Any physical union that would happen would be after the full development of the younger individuals human brain. You will be stronger and have developed your character. Your mind is not being “groomed” and conditioned by your much older Twin Flame. You need to grow outside of the relationship. They could probably offer indirect guidance, for example me being a fan, but I believe it’s up to the individual to work on their own.


Ever noticed how many spiritual guru/teachers start their path around age 30? Jesus and Buddha was around thirty before they started teaching. Also Zoroaster was said to have had a realization at age 30. In Genesis, Joseph was 30 years old when he became in charge of all the land in Egypt.

Pharaoh said to Joseph, “I am Pharaoh; yet without you, no one shall lift up hand or foot in all the land of Egypt.” Pharaoh then gave Joseph the name Zaphenath-paneah; and he gave him for a wife Asenath daughter of Poti-phera priest of On. Thus Joseph emerged in charge of the land of Egypt – Joseph was thirty years old when he entered the service of Pharaoh king of Egypt – Leaving Pharaoh’s presence, Joseph traveled through all the land of Egypt. – Genesis 41:44-46 The Jewish Publication Society of America.

World known spiritual author of The Power of Now, Eckhart Tolle, also had an awakening when he was 29. This is written in the introduction his book, by the third paragraph he stated:

One night not long after my twenty-ninth birthday, I woke up in the early hours with a feeling of absolute dread. I had woken up with such a feeling many times before, but this time it was more intense than it had ever been. The silence of the night, the vague outlines of the furniture in the dark room, the distant noise of a passing train – everything felt so alien, so hostile, and so utterly meaningless that it created in me a deep loathing of the world. The most loathsome thing of all, however, was my own existence. What was the point in continuing to live with this burden of misery? Why carry on with this continuous struggle? I could feel that a deep longing for annihilation, for nonexistence, was now becoming much stronger than the instinctive desire to continue to live.


The planet Saturn can take up to 30 years to complete its rotation around the sun. In astrology this is called the Saturn Return. The Wikipedia, describes it as:

In horoscopic astrology, a Saturn return is an astrological transit that occurs when the planet Saturn returns to the same place in the sky that it occupied at the moment of a person’s birth. While the planet may not reach the exact spot until the person is 29 or 30 years old, the influence of the Saturn return is considered to start in the person’s late twenties, notably the age of 27.

Psychologically, the first Saturn return is seen as the time of reaching full adulthood, and being faced, perhaps for the first time, with adult challenges and responsibilities.

With the first Saturn return, a person leaves youth behind and enters adulthood.

I believe this is something to be considered in line with human brain development. In my humbled opinion, any age gap between true twin flames, a physicality union wouldn’t happen until the youngest reaches late twenties to about age 30, after the first Saturn Return. It would be selfish for the older Twin to take on the younger when they are not fully developed, emotionally and mentally. I would even challenge a paring couple with a large age gap, for example the older one is 54 and the younger one is 18 or even 21. I would highly doubt their claim. In a relationship like this, is nothing more but the older person waiting for someone to be considered “legal” so it’s “safe” to have sex with them and no legal action can be taken.

I believe the older Twin counterpart would allow the younger to grow and mature on their own before any physical Union and vice versa. Twin Flames are a mature relationship. There’s so much involved in a Twin Flame Union and has nothing to do with family life and bodily pleasures.


When I “found” my beloved indirectly through media, he was 28. I found him with the song Bullet With Butterfly Wings. I just turned 19. The year was 1995, it was my birth month October when the song was released. I went to see him for the first time in person on March 1, 2000, his birth month, Pisces season, when he was turning 33. I was 23 at the time. So, we can see we were also mirror numbers when we first made eye contact. I was 23; he was 32. A note about Mellon Collie, the album that led me to him, was Released OCTOBER 23, 1995. Another example from this album, that is symbolic is the song 1979 (19/7/9). In numerology he’s a 7 and I’m a 9. Billy also sings it this way as well on the album. He does not say seventy-nine but seven nine. Check the official song book, it’s in there. Here is a collage I made about the song 19/7/9 and the many mirrors, signs and syncs between us, not just the age and date factor. I dug more into songs he’s written on my In Plain Song post.

There’s actually more details with 19/7/9 and I should probably dedicate 2 collages instead of bunching them all into one. I give a little more details with my Chapter Book about my fandom and our first meeting. You may check it out by clicking this link.

It was during the Blinking with Fists poetry tour in 2004 when I went to see him up close in person again. The month he did this tour was October, my birth month, when the book was published. I just turned 28. Billy was 37.

I just want to throw out there that Courtney and Billy met and began dating in 1989. Courtney was 24/25 (July 9, 1964) and Billy was 21/22 (March 17, 1967). Even though her birthday was 7/9, nothing else is synchronicities as far as I can tell. I mean he wrote the song with a guitar maker that was named Kimberly not Courtney.

If you’re interested, here is my story of the poetry tour:


The probability of a Twin Flame relationship that will likely reach a romantic union, as I see it, depends on how close the age gap is between the counterparts. Also, that the relationship can be long lasting. If the age gap is too great, it’s probably unlikely to be a physical union.

For example, if the younger counterpart is say age 30, I would think a fifty year gap is really pushing the likelihood of being in a physical romantic union depends on the health of the older counterpart at age 80. If they took care of themselves during this lifetime and is in top health, I can see it working out. The older counterpart can still live for another 20 years, if they are in great health. Then again, I know some younger folks who don’t take care of themselves and are worse off than someone much older. So, it depends on the individual.

The gap is caused by reincarnation and the lives you lived before this incarnation. Even when you started off the same in the beginning and split, life can mess things up a little. All it takes is an early death for the one counterpart and the other to continue living.


Since I have made this discovery, I have noticed a pattern that the Saturn return is significant for twin flames. I have discovered Chloe’s twin flame, the one who bore my counterparts children, and she’s in her Saturn Return. Her true Twin Flame also has an age gap, but 5 years younger than Billy. He has all the signs and timelines that I found to be her totally legit Twin Flame. I am so proud of me! To read about this discovery click here:

Also, I believe I know who Courtney “Love” Twin Flame is. And I have found a Saturn return example between them as well. She was in her Saturn Return when he publicly showed up in their life as well. They have an almost exactly 22 year age gap minus 4 days. He’s a sun Cancer like Courtney with a birthdate of July 13, 1943. Yes, he’s older. You can find my exploring of this revelation here:

Thanks for reading

I hope to update more on this at a later date.

Don’t forget, a Twin Flame relationship has more to do with age. Check out the rest of my blog to see the many synchronicities between me and my beloved and to assist you on your journey so you can compare notes.