Updated December 11, 2020
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Why are you drawn to a celebrity and not the car salesman or Doctor or a trusted family friend? Why is it no one else seems to strike a fire within you? You observe this one celebrity over time that you felt drawn to and try to figure it out yet, you still can’t shake them from your mind. Let’s say after you have read my most clicked on article YES, YOUR TWIN FLAME CAN BE A CELEBRITY, and you awaken to the idea that your Twin Flame is indeed a celebrity, you are NOT just some obsessive super-fan. You know your not a super-fan because you’ve met some online and you felt so insignificant compared to them. You can’t match their obsessive fanism. What you know just is. Whats the next phase? What does it mean? What do you do? How do we go about it? Can we treat it like the other Twin Flame connections? To the last question I’m going to say, yes and no.
HELP! WHAT DO I DO IF MY TWIN FLAME IS A CELEBRITY?
There’s not much out there on the web about this dynamic. Many people feel we are in ego by saying our Twin Flame is a celebrity. My heart loves a man that happens to be a celebrity. God put this love there. Going into the Twin Flame communities and we can be viewed negatively so we stay silent or never mention it or speak very indirectly on fear of being judged and criticized. There’s something about our dynamic that triggers so many and we need a different type of support from the “regular” twin flames. Here is an example of a know it all supposed to be a twin flame “teacher” that disagrees that God can create a celebrity /non-celebrity dynamic:
Being in a celebrity/non celebrity dynamic sure don’t give you much support out there in the communities or other services that are being offered to the peasant Twin Flames (oops, my bad. It must be my ego speaking through). I hope to achieve filling in the missing elements that is needed between celebrity/non celebrity Twin Flames dynamic. I mean, I am one of a non celebrity counterpart to a major celebrity. Also, because once you reach physical Union, you are no longer a peasant and need not worry about those naysayers who are against us! (There’s that ego again with the peasants.)
Are they aware?
Is your celebrity counterpart awakened to the reality of your connection? Are they aware in the physical world and not just in fantasy, dreams or in thought? Are you both in vibrational alignment? Billy and I haven’t been in a balanced vibrational alignment to bring us together and it’s probably why I needed to go to him a few times in the past, unconsciously, of what I was actually doing, to help give a little push to move things along, no matter how slow we were coming together. I also didn’t believe in soulmates so, there’s that issue as well. (If you want to read about this part in my journey of anti-love, you can read it here: Chapter (29) TWO-9: I Don’t Believe In Love)
Then again, according to our Ultimate Timeline that I’ve created and other things I’ve found and posted on this blog, we’ve always had some type of alignment. We have an off the charts Quantum Entanglement! Good Lord! What is it that I’m looking at?!
We first made eye contact in 2000. You can read about my story here: Chapter (05) ZERO-five: My Fandom and first meeting. You can say we have really dragged this thing out on a linear timeline, but it has served a purpose, because I’m now able to share this story. There would be no unfolding story to tell the world if we just started to get a little busy on the table as soon as we met! “Here I Am.” “There you are.” Boom! Banging like rabbits!
With the blessings of social media, you can find yourself in fan communities or your counterparts own personal social media page(s) and perhaps physically do meet and greets and performances in person! You may need to put yourself out there a little so the celebrity counterparts physical body is aware of your existence and your not just a pipe dream to them. They could be so blinded by their own ego or stuck in a dark world. There’s so many conspiracy theories about Hollywood elite, they could be so lost within that matrix world.
A celebrity will most certainly feel drawn towards you in some form. In my experiences before social media, Billy Corgan most definitely showed signs that he knew my presences. You can read about my stories here on this blog My Twin Flame Journey with Billy Corgan
Some people might say that a celebrity won’t show any signs of any interest whatsoever! I don’t believe that to be the case at all. They might be subtle and you could have over looked it, but I believe you’ll notice a interest. It just might not be so in your face with bells and whistles and confetti magically appearing from the sky and the entire world stopped and staring at you both with angels playing trumpets, cue the violinist and harp player filling in as a background track. That’s an artistic fantasy you’ll only read in romance novels or see in a movie. I feel some of the ones who say that they didn’t notice their twin noticing them is not very good at people reading and a possibility of seeking out a romanticized love story. Brush up on people reading and body language. Pay attention! You could also be stuck in a negative thinking that you didn’t even notice the obvious body language presented to you.
Depending on your situations and where you are at along this journey, I am going to proceed with an assumption for this article that there has been some type of meeting between you and them, especially online and/or in the physical world. Online is where so much can happen in our modern society and how lucky we are to have evolved to these types of digital meetings! Twin flames can now be together more than ever!
Bait and Hook phase
There is this online game that celebrities play that is so passive aggressive. When you catch it, it might seem so cute and fun at first. The issue that can arise is how long it’s being dragged out! Indirect message? Are they “mirroring” me? Awakened or unawakened on their part, this can be a bit awkward, confusing, creepy and annoying!
You want to see if they will respond to a direct message from you but instead, you’ll be blocked and/or ignored. They will continually “mirror” you in some form, daily and even exhibited telepathy, but you can’t get a response from them personally. This is so frustrating! Just send a direct message! What gives?
This is what I am calling the Bait and Hook phase. It’s very much narcissistic on the surface. Just know, you have their attention. it’s everywhere. You even decided to try my methods that I showed on this blog to determine the reality of your situation. You are not crazy! You feel it. It’s even there in your face with your timelines. Countless of synchronicities, dreams! You felt that bubble! Your chakras were/are lit! There is way too many coincidences to cast it aside.
I’m going to tell you, even with all of this insanity, this is wonderful development! Why? They are your twin flame! This is it honey!
You’ve met up, made eye contact, even if just a few seconds of time. They are showing signs in the digital world. You probably even befriended some superfans as digital friends. You probably also made enemies! And an added bonus, if they are like my twin, and still with a karmic, they will try and have a child on your birthday!
Talk about a stab in the back and smack in the face! Here he was showing signs indirectly and everywhere of wanting to be in Union! See this example!
This was a tough trigger for me in knowing he tried to have a child and create me! Twisted and sick but I try and view it positively (I usually end up on the twisted and sick side but I’m really trying!) Now there’s a child, a living being that he created for the rest of his life and a consistent reminder. I wouldn’t be surprised if she was due on my birthday, the 3rd of October. God was not allowing him to have a child right on my birthday. This is so deceptive.
I have to remind myself, he couldn’t be with me and have children with me because he can’t handle the intensity of our energies together so he stays with someone he feels less for, if anything at all, and planned on making a child as a symbol of his true love for me. Yeah, talk about a slap in the face to the female in relationship with him. I guess she favors being treated like crap just so she can say she has his physical body in spite, for I don’t know what reason. This mindset some women have, I’m sorry, but I can’t process it. Especially since she is well aware of his feelings towards me and who I am. But she wanted to play this role of bat shit crazy and “trapping a man” by getting herself pregnant when he was just using her for sex. And now, since they already had one, if she’s this insecure and sticks around, he’ll just use her as a vessel to conceive full blooded siblings!
How do I know that she knows exactly who I am? I went to his teahouse for a few performances in 2016. This one day I stood in the back watching and every time he looked up he looked right at me. I watched Chloe standing off to the side looking back and forth at us. You would think she was watching a tennis match! Click here for my story.
It’s like, you know lady, you could have “trapped” a much younger and more famous celebrity rather than someone like Billy Corgan who’s not going to return to his popularity in the mid 90s and find someone more suitable for you and show you more love than he ever did or will! But, here we are! An insecure woman who wants a pity party for staying in a toxic situation. As one saying goes, perhaps the real winner is the one who got away.
Billy, is like Bill, the father of my children (and many other relationships). Bill once told me, he decided to marry his wife because he felt “it was the right thing to do” by getting her pregnant and so he stayed in a unhappy relationship for 13 years. Regardless that it was “open”, he didn’t mess around while she did. I don’t know about Billy’s situation, if they are open or not, but I believe he stayed “for the child” and now children.
So, here is how I am to view this surreal scenario:
It appears that maybe perhaps, the celebrity doesn’t know how to handle this intense situation. They behave like Superfans towards you, even if you were never like a Superfan towards them! I guess we can view it as, it’s all they know. This is very important though, in understanding what’s happening.
THE CELEBRITY COUNTERPART IS YOUR SUPER-FAN!I examined the difference between Superfan and the non celebrity Twin in my other article. Here is a link in case you didn’t read it. This is where we get stuck as a community. We don’t understand their behavior because we aren’t the celebrity, we are living normal (peasant) lives that they aren’t. But in their world, something like trying having a child on your birthday, is considered a high honor not a sign of mental illness. This is what Superfans do! They mirror what the Superfans do, to you. They could also secretly gotten a tattoo of you on them. Perhaps even a room full of memorials! Who know, the possibilities are endless when it comes to super-fans. Their karmic partner might even treat it as such, like in non celebrity lifestyle (peasant) relationships. Imagine going out to a show with your significant other in your non celebrity relationship and your partner is all starry eye to the performer on stage. Do you fight when you get home? I know people that use this as a “fantasy” or role play. The non starry eye partner might jump on this as a means to get laid because now their partner is now sexually aroused and they might not have had sexual intercourse in a while. So, in essence, this behavior is encouraged. Sex therapist and relationship “experts” will consider this fantasy behavior as normal and not as emotional or mental cheating or spiritually raping a person while self pleasuring to reach an orgasm. There’s so much more happening with these energetic exchanges then meets the eye that I’m not focused on in for this article and perhaps shall be written for a future one, if I’m inspired in time.
I see this behavior in the strip clubs I work in. Couples will come in to the clubs. The woman thinks she’s the “cool” partner by going with her man. Some are cool and polite to us dancers but others are cruel and nasty towards dancers unless you fit the females idea of perfection in her mind (which is usually someone who is just like her) regardless if the male is very much interested in another dancer, she’ll attack you with crude remarks or get all snotty and cocky. I do not understand these types of females going into our clubs and acting like this. This is all ego and possessiveness. This is a whole other topic that is not going to be added to this article so, I’ll leave it.
As you can see in this example, your celebrity counterpart is projecting Superfan behavior to you! You are now the performer on stage and they are the starry eye fan! The partner they arrived with is the one they go home to and doing their form of roll play that their partner views as nothing in particular and probably even encourages it so they can have some illusional intimacy with your souls counterpart while in a heightened state.
Some disappointing newsThis is where I’m going to have to give you some disappointing news! How exciting! I’m sure you have an inner sense of this of what must take place, for you, the non celebrity counterpart, for your growth. You probably already know in your heart. Are you ready to read the words as confirmation? Deep breath.
End the Fandom
Well, you made your presence known. You mingled online, maybe even made eye contact for a few seconds in the physical world, made a few fan friends along the way, and now you must stop being a fan. Yes! You read that correct. You must stop being a fan! I know. So simple right? Especially now since you became so entangled with the fan energy while online. This must happen. You see, this is a part of surrender, letting go and having faith in God and the unknown. Your heart has probably been crushed. I know. It’s devastating! You’d rather die than pull away from their social media and turn off Google notifications and tell YouTube to stop recommending videos of your beloved. Become blind to your counterparts physical body.
When I say end the fandom, I don’t mean go and have a bonfire of all the albums, books, movies etc of physical world materialistic items that you have already collected. I mean to end all the online stuff. Put all of your collected items in a storage bin, you don’t need a bonfire. You need physical world social media Detachment. Yes, even social media itself should be limited.
THE DETACHMENT PHASE of the non celebrity counterpart
Remember, if you truly love somebody, set them free. Give them wings to fly. Rest assured, you’ll probably still somehow get information about them in the physical world. Their higher selves are always sending you information, especially if they are your true twin flame. (Yes, I hate using the word true Twin Flame but many like to say there are false twin flames or many who like to claim a celebrity as a twin flame etc so I would like to clarify more with the word true. There’s only ONE) Let go of the physical body. Let go of online stalking. Turn off notifications of articles. Unfollow all of their social media. Stop listening, watching movies, reading books or whatever is their medium. Drop all of it. Yes, time to let go of co-dependency. Stop using their art to connect or fill your heart space. As Twins, you are always connected and the physical body or their art creations are not needed in this connection. You are going to only work energetically.
You will fail probably many times during this stage. You will cry. You will experience such pain that feels like you are ripping your own heart out. You are cutting off a limb. You are pulling particles out of yourself. Perhaps you will experience withdrawal symptoms. It must be done. It’s going to take some time. It is a process like everything else. That’s also why it’s called a journey. It’s all about the journey, not the destination. You will fall a hundred times and get back up a hundred and one times. Fixing your crown and dusting yourself off. You may even consider it like the game of Shoots and Ladders! That one dreaded slide once you are nearing the top! But, you can do this! Because one day, those slides will disappear and you’ll just keep ascending upwards. But don’t be fooled, because sometimes a slide will reappear again, but you’ll learn not to slide own as far and maybe that one long dreadful slide will be cut in half or you learn how to jump off.
Remember: You are not a fan. That’s an illusion. You are them. You must learn to let go of the physical form of the other you. Their art is also a physical form for us, the non celebrity twin that needs to be let go. But the end goal is physical Union, correct? Learning to let go and set them free is vital. You must free yourself from co-dependency, otherwise you are just a possessive Superfan. You are not a Super-fan! You are not someone they should be cashing off of. Super-fans are the materialistic ones. Super-fans are the ones who put the celebrity where they are. A strong super-fan base will keep them there. You are their divine counterpart. Let the super-fans be Super-fans, they have their own life lessons to work through.
You are your celebrity’s counterpart Queen/King; their Empress/Emperor; their Goddess/God.
Look at it this way, if you were in an actual physical relationship with them, as their spouse, would you be needing to buy everything they sell you? Are you buying seats to the show or did their record company reserve you a seat? Do you need backstage passes or should the fact you are wearing the wedding ring your famous counterpart gave you to let you in? You don’t want to be a fan. You want physical Union! That’s why you must drop the fan crap. Start behaving like Royal Spouse of your famous counterpart not like a screaming fan girl!
You need to feel good inward without them. Learn to align yourself without them being with you or using their art to align. Align with your own inner source. Align directly from Source/God. Don’t align by going through your counterpart like a middle man or dare I say, Jesus. If you need a middle man, that’s why Jesus came here. Use Jesus as a middle man if you need a middle person to align, not your counterpart. He gave himself up so humans may use him to connect with divine source if they feel unworthy. As a Twin Flame, you align both with source and your counterpart, but you can’t be unbalanced and put so much focus on your beloved. Walk away from their physical form, connect energetically.
The Massive Ego
There is also this idea about celebrities having huge massive egos. Does your counterpart have this? Do people say they have a huge ego when they meet them? Keanu Reeves is probably the most perfect example of a humbled celebrity. Unless your twin is like him, they will most likely have a massive ego. This is what I believe that could cause a massive narcissistic ego for a celebrity counterpart. It’s because you’re a fan. You both share the same energy. You are one soul in two bodies. If your twin is doing their life and they are big rich and famous and here you are, them in another body, also giving them so much love and attention. The celebrity counterpart also have the energy from soul ties that the Superfans attached to them, also people they have had sexual relationships with, its not just your own energy. All this energy attention is so focused on the one counterpart. The energies are unbalanced. Envision a scaled. Are you dumping all your energy onto their side? What about your side of the scaled?
I know, but you love them! You just love sending them all of this loving energy! Pulling yourself away is death! But you must be reborn, into you. This is why I feel the one counterpart can have such a massive ego. They never learned how to balance all of that energy being thrown at them with soul ties and sexual partners and other life events that happened during childhood, etc. The celebrity counterpart have became energy vampires! (Ah! See what I just did there? Billy Corgan was projecting when he voiced “The WORLD is a vampire. It was him all along, an energy vampire. His ego was probably growing so big during this time.)
You are unintentionally giving so much love to them and little to yourself. Don’t be hard on yourself though. We are all learning as we go along. This celebrity/non celebrity dynamic let alone Twin Flames in general is entirely new to us. Twin Flames have been around for a long time, but technology and the World Wide Web is opening so many new eyes. Unions with twin flames is entirely being fueled by the internet and social media. That’s what it actually is, when people want to call it a new template. As I mentioned in my other article about the history of love in humanity from the author Stephanie Coontz, marring for Love was extremely rare. So please, don’t beat yourself up over any of this when you learn your souls counterpart is worldly famous. It’s also worth mentioning that you both choose this path before birth. I believe the celebrity/non celebrity dynamic is amongst the most difficult and most rewarding of all the dynamics, even with both celebrity – celebrity dynamic or peasant-peasant dynamic or dead celebrity – peasant living dynamic. It’s not that we are something special but I believe it’s the one that will have the most impact on a worldly scale. This is also why you must completely remove yourself from their physical body and become exclusive to only working energetically with your celebrity counterpart, especially with a celebrity massive ego.
When you fully let go, you need to accept and be ok with not knowing or understanding where you are with your connection to your souls counterpart. We are all learning. Be forgiving of your Twins unawareness also. The world is in an awakening and it’s a beautiful thing unfolding. Also at this stage, you need to learn your own intuition. Put all of that energy back into you. Read, write, learn something new, find interest that isn’t your twin or if your drawn to the same things, because they are your twin flame, develop the skill, but don’t learn their style because you want your own. You need to drop them like a hot pumpkin and focus on you! (Like my puns?)
I know you’ll never be 100% take your focus off of them, because I can’t either, but most definitely, stop the fan attention! You giving them fan attention and they will treat you as they treat their fans, yet they also behave like Super-fans towards you. This can be viewed as an obsession. Especially if they are known to have a massive ego, this situation can get a bit toxic if you keep holding on to their physical online world. It’s the degree of energy being sent to them. Take your power back! Be ok, with not being in physical Union. Be ok with not knowing anything about them. Be ok to being blind to the physical body. Let them come to you. Let them start bringing focus to the other side of the scale. By you being a fan, you are not in receiving mode. You keep giving them energy and focus. Now that they know who you are, you know who you are, you know about your connection, your counterpart is aware of your connection, it takes time for the celebrity counterpart to learn to redirect energies and learn discernment. As the words you don’t want to hear, all in divine timing. Be patient with them. They are waking up from their Hollywood Elite Matrix of that fake world. They are a part of an illusion inside of another illusion. We can’t say for sure how deep of a rabbit hole they got themselves into within the Hollywood Elite Matrix, we can only speculate. They have become puppets to the Elite. Our celebrity non celebrity dynamic has so many layers compared to all the other twin flame dynamics with the one counterpart involved with the Elites. Until our counterparts cough up truth and approach us, we can only have faith that the divine will handle our situation. We just need to let go.
You can probably view ending the fandom as leveling up. Congratulations! You are now on a different path! You are now mastering you! You are taking the focus off of your counterpart’s physical form and their art to release co-dependency so they can also learn to balance the energies between you. I don’t know how long this stage lasts because I’m learning as a go along! I can let go of his physical form but I can’t get him out of my inner being. This stage is where you need DISTRACTIONS!
May I make some suggestions as to where to start your focus as you detach and recenter to balance yourself without them? Here are some ideas to also help assist with healings.
- Make peace with your religion of origin. It was your foundation. Get back to God/Allah/the divine. You don’t need to be a full devoted person to the religion, but make peace with it. Stop throwing shade at it. I know many people throw shade at Christianity and Catholicism in particular in the spiritual community. I’m going to suggest, make peace with it, regardless of any negative experiences. This area needs to be healed.
- Also, as you take focus off of your celebrity twin flame, make peace with your family bloodline. These areas also need to be healed. Be humbled.
- Try using chants and mantras. I find many of these helpful.
- Read things on manifestation and law of attraction like Abraham Hicks.
- Take walks in nature. If your a parent of young ones, take them with you! Feel the energy and excitement of innocence watching them play.
- Go to the gym. Run a treadmill! You’ll probably still have your counterpart on your mind but at least you’re not on the internet!
- Find a video of a teacher that you like (it doesn’t have to be spiritual, it can be any topic, even mathematics) and transcribe it! (Hey, I’m offering ideas. No, I didn’t do this, but it might be interesting to do.)
There’s so much you can do to occupy your mind and take the focus off of your counterpart. Let them go. Surrender. Be happy knowing you are already one with them. Be grateful, even if there’s no physical Union. You are forever one. Remember, it’s about the journey, not the destination.
DON’T SETTLE FOR LESS THAN FULL PHYSICAL UNION
I have heard of non celebrity counterparts that have been receiving messages from their celebrity counterpart, but it’s done “in secret.” Don’t settle for this. Don’t be a emotional side dish. You want the main course. You want physical union. Don’t settle to being a “secret”. This is equivalent to being “the other woman.” They are keeping you a secret while being a dog with everyone else. You are not made a priority by remaining a secret. Tell them to hit the road. Put your foot down on anything less than physical union. You deserve love. You deserve someone in your physical life. They are just taking you on an emotional roller coaster ride. All or nothing. Don’t be afraid to let this behavior and them go. Cry if you need to. Drop them and work on you. Raise your own vibrational alignment with divine source. Let them rise to you and meet you there. Be the Queen. Don’t settle for breadcrumbs. There is no almost, it’s either is or not. Let them go figure things out for themselves. I know you might view it as something is better than nothing. I’m telling you, you want it all or nothing. No secrets. Why are you a secret?
Hopefully, as time moves on and more people open up to the concept of twin flames, the celebrity counterpart won’t behave as bizarre like my Twin Flame with fake profiles and personalities, and they can be real and honest with you, with no mind games, you won’t need to be so stern with them. Some may have deep child wounds and need to be put into their place until they start being real with you. Don’t settle for mind games and only accept them being honest with you. Don’t stoop down to that level, make them level up to you.
Some manifestation may take time to unfold depending on where you are both at on your level of vibrations towards physical union. Let them go and you just focus on you. Maybe it’s a blessing and God is protecting you because they have became so toxic while in the Hollywood Elite Matrix. Let them drown. They make no use to you if they are pulling you down and refuse to change. Keep rising. It’ll be hard at first, like withdrawal, but you got this! Send them love and let go. Trust that the manifestation of physical union with your celebrity twin flame counterpart is on its way to you.
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Blessings to you on your path to wholeness.