ARE TWIN FLAMES REAL?
Are Twin Flames real? Just a direct and to the point question from a skeptical person, such as myself and perhaps you, the reader. The Twin Flame topic seems to be everywhere now. More and more people are aware of Twin Flames, We have people who believe and people who don’t. There’s a lot of information out there on the web about Twin Flames. We also have haters who don’t want to see other people happy for egotistical reasons so will be a wedge between a pair of Twin Flames. Those people are miserable and believe everyone should suffer and reflect how they are feeling so they can feel better about themselves. They are just misaligned and disconnected themselves from the Divine/Source.
I can’t say that I was seeking out being a Twin Flame or even a soulmate to ANYONE, let alone a celebrity. It was actually presented to me at a time, I was in this state where, I could have been easily influenced and manipulated with the power of suggestion from a man with worldly status and wealth and that I had a “thing” for a very long time. I had to learn all about Twin Flames.
What I concluded was YES, apparently Twin Flames is a real thing! Everything that is said about them, I was able to show. If it’s not, I’d like to know what this “thing” is then. I can’t find another explanation.
The synchronicities: It’s just Coincidence?
This is all the stuff I worked on in this blog. I can’t prove inner feelings, but I was able to show, as Billy indirectly said he wanted, “evidence.” I found a way using collages and created a timeline. Twin Flames are said to mirror each other, I decided to lay it all out. He stated having it public, so I found a public blog to post in and make edits as I go along.
Some people say there’s no such thing as coincidences, others will only discredit it as nothing more but coincidences. Maybe with some comparisons with other people, who aren’t Twin Flames, can be cast out as coincidence, but I have found so many between us! Can it just be classified as coincidental? Me and this other person, share so much synchronicities!
Carl Jung (1875-1961), a Swiss psychiatrist and psychoanalyst, came up with the word Synchronicity. On one level, I feel like I was doing his work. Is this what he was doing?
Not only is Twin Flames real, but I feel I was able to show and created this blog! With everything that I was able to find, no matter how advanced technology becomes, nor strategic and carefully a storyline Hollywood creates, there’s no way they could ever come close to creating a pairing of true Twin Flames. Only the Divine can do it. We are interwoven within each other.
It’s been written about in Religious Scriptures
As long as you understand what Twin Flames are, you can find them all over in Sacred Texts. The word Twin Flame is new, but not the idea of a divine other. I will show you using some examples from the Bible and A Course In Miracles that I believe when combined can paint a clearer picture.
So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.Genesis 1:27 New International Version
He created them male and female and blessed them. And he named them “Mankind” when they were created.Genesis 5:2. New International Version.
“Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’Matthew 19:4 New International Version
I know what you are thinking, God created a man and woman, as two separate bodies, separate people. No, it’s not like that. We were as one body. We were as one being, something like Hermaphrodites, but I don’t believe we can visualize a true picture. We were just all entangled of mixed energy. No one knows what God looks like, and we are in the image and likeness of God. How do we know what that is when we are not physically and energetically separated?
Here is some explanation I found in A Course In Miracles.
The Garden of Eden, or the pre-separation condition, was a state of mind in which nothing was needed. . . [ ]
What is seen in dreams seems to be very real. Yet the Bible says that a deep sleep fell upon Adam, and nowhere is there reference to his waking up. The world has not yet experienced any comprehensive reawakening or rebirth. Such a rebirth is impossible as long as you continue to project or miscreate. It still remains within you, however, to extend as God extended His Spirit to you. In reality this is your only choice, because your free will was given you for your joy in creating the perfect.
Only after the deep sleep fell upon Adam could he experience nightmares. If a light is suddenly turned on while someone is dreaming a fearful dream, he may initially interpret the light itself as part of his dream and be afraid of it. However, when he awakens, the light is correctly perceived as the release from the dream, which is then no longer accorded reality. This release does not depend on illusions. The knowledge that illuminates not only sets you free, but also shows you clearly that you are free.A Course in Miracles
Here is the Bible reference:
So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and then closed up the place with flesh. Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.Genesis 2:21-24 New International Version
The man said,
“This is now bone of my bones
and flesh of my flesh;
she shall be called ‘woman,’
for she was taken out of man. ”
That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.
While the man was sleeping is when God took a man’s rib out, which is the separation of our wholeness. The entire Bible can then be seen as the dream of “Adam”. It was all an illusion.
Merrily, Merrily, Merrily Merrily, life is but a dream.Children’s Nursery Rhythm “Row, Row, Row your Boat”
There is only ONE Twin Flame. You do not have multiple counterparts. One person can’t handle the intensity of more than one. I find too many who romanticized every relationship. Every person someone is attracted to is being called a Soulmate. So now we have a new word, Twin Flame because Soulmate was being misused. But now, Twin Flames can be seen as being misused as well. No matter what word is used, some how someone will misuse it. You don’t have 5 Twin Flames!
You can’t force this type of connection. I had no intention of “forcing” myself to be some soulmate of a celebrity. I don’t feel comfortable calling someone a “soulmate,” it never sat right with me. I hated seeing women’s magazine at checkouts having it in big words on the cover. “I can create a beautiful love story with any person, that’s bullshit.” Once I learned of “us,” is when it all changed for me. I couldn’t bring myself to saying it’s not real or true. It just felt right.
ARE TWIN FLAMES SUPPOSED TO BE TOGETHER?
Twin Flames are real, but the real question to ask is, if we are supposed to be together? I can’t not answer this question. Since learning about Twin Flame and as of 2021, we have been physically separated. Here he informs me about “us,” yet, he has done absolutely nothing.
There are teachers who say, YES, you are supposed to be together, they are your destiny. There are also teachers who say, not all Twin Flames are meant to be together, physically. You could only be here as a catalyst to spark spiritual growth in each other. That this isn’t your last life, you will only be together when it’s your last life. Its contradictive teachings depending on teacher. So, I’m turning to A Course In Miracles for some guidance. I find some great guidelines in a chapter called “The Alter of God.
1. The Atonement can only be accepted within you by releasing the inner light. Since the separation, defenses have been used almost entirely to defend against the Atonement, and thus maintain the separation. This is generally seen as a need to protect the body. The many body fantasies in which minds engage arise from the distorted belief that the body can be used as a means for attaining “atonement.” Perceiving the body as a temple is only the first step in correcting this distortion, because it alters only part of it. It does recognize that Atonement in physical terms is impossible. The next step, however, is to realize that a temple is not a structure at all. Its true holiness lies at the inner altar around which the structure is built. The emphasis on beautiful structures is a sign of the fear of Atonement, and an unwillingness to reach the altar itself. The real beauty of the temple cannot be seen with the physical eye. Spiritual sight, on the other hand, cannot see the structure at all because it is perfect vision. It can, however, see the altar with perfect clarity.A Course In Miracles
This is interesting teaching because I see many who falsely believe that “sexual healing” works. It does not. I do believe this is entirely about sex. The “beautiful structures” is shallow and only seeing “beautiful bodies.” Atonement with orgasm is impossible. They chase “beautiful structures” because the EGO fears Atonement. I never seen his structure, but I seen him beautiful because I had perfect vision. I felt no shame in saying what I did in the fan groups because I only seen him with perfect clarity. I seen him for who he was a long time ago and seen him as beautiful all around.
2. For perfect effectiveness the Atonement belongs at the center of the inner altar, where it undoes the separation and restores the wholeness of the mind. Before the separation the mind was invulnerable to fear, because fear did not exist. Both the separation and the fear are miscreations that must be undone for the restoration of the temple, and for the opening of the altar to receive the Atonement. This heals the separation by placing within you the one effective defense against all separation thoughts and making you perfectly invulnerable.A Course In Miracles
I’m wondering if the “opening of the alter” is a reference to opening of the chakras. It sounds correct to me.
3. The acceptance of the Atonement by everyone is only a matter of time. This may appear to contradict free will because of the inevitability of the final decision, but this is not so. You can temporize and you are capable of enormous procrastination, but you cannot depart entirely from your creator, who set the limits on your ability to miscreate. An imprisoned will engenders a situation which, in the extreme, becomes altogether intolerable. Tolerance for pain may be high, but it is not without limit. Eventually everyone begins to recognize, however dimly, that there must be a better way. As this recognition becomes more firmly established, it becomes a turning point. This ultimately reawakens spiritual vision, simultaneously weakening the investment in physical sight. The alternating investment in the two levels of perception is usually experienced as conflict, which can become very acute. But the outcome is as certain as God.A Course In Miracles
Them “running” and chasing many “beautiful structures” is their false idea of free will. Sexual promiscuity is not free will at all. “The outcome is as certain as God” seems to speak, that Union with “the other” is also as certain as God, so this would say YES to me, in that Twin Flame are destined to be together. The question is of time and in what lifetime.
4. Spiritual vision literally cannot see error, and merely looks for Atonement. All solutions the physical eye seeks dissolve. Spiritual vision looks within and recognizes immediately that the altar has been defiled and needs to be repaired and protected. Perfectly aware of the right defense it passes over all others, looking past error to truth. Because of the strength of its vision, it brings the mind into its service. This re-establishes the power of the mind and makes it increasingly unable to tolerate delay, realizing that it only adds unnecessary pain. As a result, the mind becomes increasingly sensitive to what it would once have regarded as very minor intrusions of discomfort.A Course In Miracles
I believe I unconsciously did this when I went to his Zwan concert, my first show. It was symbolically his spiritual album. It ended up being a misleading album from him as he is caught up in the Elite Matrix. I was on a spiritual path back then, and I believe I was looking to see if he reached Atonement. I was unaware of being a divine counterpart, but my actions seems to have spoken otherwise. For example, when I felt he was looking in my direction and I looked up, and he did also. He did absolutely nothing to approach me but it was what it was.
5. The children of God are entitled to the perfect comfort that comes from perfect trust. Until they achieve this, they waste themselves and their true creative powers on useless attempts to make themselves more comfortable by inappropriate means. But the real means are already provided, and do not involve any effort at all on their part. The Atonement is the only gift that is worthy of being offered at the altar of God, because of the value of the altar itself. It was created perfect and is entirely worthy of receiving perfection. God and His creations are completely dependent on each other. He depends on them because He created them perfect. He gave them His peace so they could not be shaken and could not be deceived. Whenever you are afraid you are deceived, and your mind cannot serve the Holy Spirit. This starves you by denying you your daily bread. God is lonely without His Sons, and they are lonely without Him. They must learn to look upon the world as a means of healing the separation. The Atonement is the guarantee that they will ultimately succeed.A Course In Miracles
Perfect trust. “Until they achieve this, they waste themselves and their true creative powers on useless attempts to make themselves more comfortable by inappropriate means.” I see this as remaining in physical separation and chasing “beautiful structures”. This could probably also apply in other areas like, trying to leave Earth and making another planet “Home.” Home is within, not external. Mankind must also heal the separation of thinking they are separated from nature. Reaching our own individual Atonement, we will ultimately succeed.
Love does not conquer all things, but it does set all things right. Because you are the Kingdom of God I can lead you back to your own creations. You do not recognize them now, but what has been dissociated is still there.A Course In Miracles: Chapter 4: The illusions of Ego
Even while in physical separation, you are still one. Love sets things right. Even if we remain physically separated in this life, we will always remain. We must go within and connect with divine source/God/Jesus. Since there’s reincarnation, we can try again in another life.
Whenever you act egotistically towards another, you are throwing away the graciousness of your indebtedness and the holy perception it would produce.
Narcissistic personalities throw away anything that is divine. Narcissistic’s are in Ego. They don’t have anything holy that stays in their lives.
I have mentioned this in my introduction:
I have heard the term Soulmates and even Twin Souls/Flames, but discarded and avoided it like I did with reading romance novels. The first book I’ve read that mentioned Soulmates but it was not a focused topic was the book The Lost Teaching of Atlantis by John Peniel (Published March 1, 1998). One day, I did eventually pick up a book with the topic of Twin Flames. I’ve first read about Twin Flames through Elizabeth Clair Prophet’s small book titled Soulmates and Twin Flames (Published 1999). Both of these books did not go into detail about the connection or mirrors between the counterparts. And in the Lost Teaching of Atlantis it was taught that the male is the one who needs to spiritually align and the female will follow. It is claimed that the male is the inner layer and the female the outer of the sphere shaped soul. If the male does not reach a spiritual attainment, and the female surpasses him, she is free to choose another partner, leaving the male behind for another round of reincarnation. The description doesn’t sound too Twin Flameish in my opinion. The way the book describes it is using Adam and Eve:
Often, because of the natural receptivity and sensitivity of the female principle, female soulmates learn their karmic lessons sooner than their male counterpart. They also find it easier to be humble and receptive with a true teacher, than does a male principle. There are exceptions of course, but there are many women on spiritual paths that have no spiritual equal, or spiritual better, male counterpart in their life. Sometimes it’s just because they don’t really want that, and all the real final changes it would entail for them, but other times, it’s just that there isn’t anyone around. This presents a great problem because of the following prerequisite of the path: just as ‘Eve’ left and ‘Adam’ followed, to get back, Adam must return first, then Eve will have the opportunity to go with him also. Fortunately, Universal Law provides a solution in such cases. If Adam does not return first, Eve can find another ‘Adam’ if she wishes to. Unfortunately for the men, the burden is on the men to surrender to the Universal Spirit first, before their soulmates, or they leave no viable alternative to their female counterparts. This is not as bad as it may sound though, for at those levels of consciousness, we achieve the primary perfect male and female archetype again, and it is just as totally satisfying and comfortable for the female to be with the new soulmate, as the old – as long as the old soulmate has not achieved enlightenment, and is being rejected.”The Lost Teachings of Atlantis by Jon Peniel
I wondered if this is what I was unconsciously doing during the Zwan tour. I was sort of “testing” him standing at a distance and looking up and seeing that he also, looked up.
You can see where this idea that the male has no choice. He doesn’t get to choose his counterpart when he already has one. The male can’t reject the female and just pick any substitute. This is what I’m leaning towards when I read this. The book doesn’t get into the possibility of a possessive female claiming someone else’s soulmate as their own.
I’m also assuming the male will go into full ego if he foolishly believes that he has a choice. They will claim man women and as history shows us, they can become so full of themselves with claiming many, many “wives.”
“So can higher consciousness women help the man they are with, raise their consciousness so they can be with them in harmony?”
“Many women attempt to change and improve their men. I have never seen it work, nor do I know anyone who has. For whatever reason, it seems that men must either learn from the school of hard knocks, or a true teacher. It is part of their false male ego. They refuse to truly grow or accept their female soulmates as their teacher, let alone equal. It could be that a woman might just happen to start ‘teaching’ a man at the same time he has actually decided to change on his own, and it might work out. Or they think they are teaching one, but it ultimately breaks down or it is false teaching. But from everything I’ve seen and know of, they cannot truly make a man ‘seek the light’ or serve the Universal Will, and attempting to do so even if temporary results seem to have been achieved, will only fail, and impair the woman’s own development. But like I said, it is very fortunate for the female that she can find a new soulmate, that is just as fulfilling, just as real, as the original, should the original fail to achieve their enlightenment.The Lost Teachings of Atlantis by Jon Peniel
This was perhaps the best part in the book with the description that can be viewed as Twin Flame. But he uses the term “original soulmate” and “new soulmate”. I believe we can view the Twin Flame being the “original” and the new as in a soulmate substitute for the female until the male has evolved, within the same lifetime, or he’ll just enter a new cycle of reincarnation and karma. The “female principal” can live a fulfilling life rejecting the “male principal” who is in Ego and refuses to evolve, not the other way around.
We could also see how this speaks that the “female principal” to not chase the male. The male needs to be in his true light and not of a false light. The false light meaning a “false prophet” that wants females to chase him. The male needs to step up and do the work. The male needs to take the lead. If he chooses not to, there’s Karma and another round of reincarnation.
This also has me thinking about how some monks have developed the ability to decide to leave their bodies. Perhaps they were a male that failed to achieve physical union in a past life with their “female principal” and living in their monk life, is what transpired. They will meet up with their counterpart in the afterlife and unite then. The female principal has rejected their male principal for lack of evolving and chose another.